Understanding The Art And Skill of Seduction

On 15/09/2010, in dating, by admin

Understanding The Art And Skill of Seduction When many people hear the word “seduction,” they immediately think of soft music, chocolate and oysters, bedroom eyes and getting “in the mood.” But seduction is actually more cerebral than sensual. The art of seduction starts with the mind, not necessarily the body. True, men and women are […]

Understanding The Art And Skill of Seduction

When many people hear the word “seduction,” they immediately think of soft music, chocolate and oysters, bedroom eyes and getting “in the mood.” But seduction is actually more cerebral than sensual. The art of seduction starts with the mind, not necessarily the body. True, men and women are turned on my different stimuli, but you do have to touch something in their psyche in order to stimulate them physically. There is not just one set of instructions on how to seduce someone that works for everyone, but there are a few constants that you can keep in mind.


The Brain Game

A major component of seduction is not what goes on “downstairs”, it is what goes on “upstairs”. Stimulate your partner’s mind and you have stimulated their most powerful erogenous zone. A little conversation (NOT blatantly about sex) can go a long way. Talk about personal things, stay away from politics, religion and other topics that can potentially spark an argument. Make eye contact, smile and keep your body language open to your partner.


Be Visual

Appeal to the senses – all the senses. Visual stimulation can be very seductive. This means dress for seduction, with warm, sexy colors and fabrics (which are also very sensual to the touch). Create an environment that is seductive, with low lighting, sensual, scented candles and soft music. Give your lover sensual things to see, to hear, to taste, to smell and to touch. This will lead to an amazing encounter.


Take Your Time

Seduction can not be rushed. The best way to learn just how to seduce the object of your desire is to take the time to seduce them. Plan ahead so that you know you will have plenty of time. Rushing right to the act might be fun for the occasional “encounter”, but it is not the sensual, seductive art of wooing your partner into an evening or afternoon (or even morning!) of pure bliss.


Be Creative

Seduction begins before you ever make it to the bedroom. Leave sexy notes where your partner will find them. Allude to your plans of seduction in text messages or phone calls. Be creative, have fun. Indulge in a little champagne and strawberries, chocolate covered strawberries, wine and roses or scented love notes. Let your imagination run wild as you stir your lover’s senses.


Don’t “Go for the Gold”

Don’t “go for the gold” immediately. Again, seduction can not be rushed. Even when you are in the moment, take your time to experience every scent, every taste, every touch of your lover. Take in their essence and let them see that you enjoy the closeness and intimacy. Hold, kiss, touch, find your lover’s special spots. Try the wrists, the backs of the knees, the inner thigh and the arch of the foot. Be gentle, explore and don’t rush.


No one really just knows intuitively how to seduce someone. Each individual responds to his or her own stimuli and they have their own opinions of what they find sensual or seductive. The very best way to seduce your partner is to KNOW your partner. Know what your partner likes and dislikes. Know what your partner responds to and what they find sensual. Remember, it is not about you, it is about your partner when you are seducing them. Enjoying the close intimacy of familiarity of your partner is the ultimate seduction.

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